We have 7 grandchildren, and 2 step grandchildren, a girl and a boy. We usually spend around £35 on each grandchild, but the eldest we hardly ever see, he`s grown up away from us and his dad, and I don`t think he`s all that bothered about us really, so we spend about £20-25 on him, is that mean of us? The 2 step grandkids are the children of second daughter`s second husband, and we didn`t really know them very well, and we spent £10 on each of them, they were 11 and 13 when we first met them. However, they`re both adults and working now, and we don`t see them at all now, so have discontinued their presents, we just send them cards now. We still tend to spend about £20 on each of our kids and their partners, be they married or not, except for the eldest who`s still at home, we spend between £60 and £70 on her, as she`s always very generous to us and everyone else. But as finances get tighter as we get older, we may have to stop and just buy for the grandkids and eldest daughter.