AIBU
I've had cancer 5 years now with no chance of a cure, I am statistically unlikely to make it to 10 years, I'm on my 4th course of chemo (8 month runs at a time before a relapse) which isn't pleasant and have had a bone marrow transplant as well as radiotherapy. My mobility is poor so I'm now in a wheelchair, I'm often ill and am permanently on painkillers, I have to rely on H to take me out so I tend to Internet shop. My problem is I can't do the things I used to do so I ask H and S who is 14 for help but just with normal housework stuff, they manage to forget I've asked and any housework I ask S to do is ignored, if I make a fuss then H causes a row saying I'm nagging S. S never does a thing without being asked at least 4 or 5 times preferring to sit in front of the Xbox instead. H goes around huffing and telling me I don't show enough appreciation for what he does for me and how tired it makes him loading my wheelchair into the car and taking me for appointments all the time. He told me to 'man up' when I said I felt sad. He does less than 2 hours of housework a day, I try to be as independent as I can be, I still do all the paperwork and bill paying in the household and all the washing, I find that stripping beds is my job as is wiping up cup stains, spills and crumbs, picking up rubbish and vacuuming. None of which would get done if I didn't do it. Our older children are quite helpful but have families of their own. I pay someone to do some bigger jobs but H goes around suggesting or starting unnecessary jobs, grumbles if I gently ask their importance or if they will make his life difficult and another row starts, 2-3 days of being bitched at, treated nastily or ignored. I'm tired and I feel ill most of the time, i try to do interesting things with our lives but this makes me so sad. I want to be treated like a princess or just a human being. AIBU
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