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What makes the British British ?

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NanKate Sat 19-Apr-14 17:02:48

Such as wearing inappropriate clothes as soon as the sun pokes its head out e.g. shorts when its 15 degree.tbushock

Eloethan Sat 19-Apr-14 17:20:58

Saying "sorry" when someone bumps into you.

merlotgran Sat 19-Apr-14 17:33:00

Queueing!

Nonu Sat 19-Apr-14 17:36:41

Nankate it is usually the younger people , NOT Seniors.
I think they look quite nice, what with the coloured hair etc, if they cannot do these things when they are young, they will never be able to !
tbugrin tbugrin

Penstemmon Sat 19-Apr-14 17:56:26

It used to be umbrellas a bowler hats!! hmm

kittylester Sat 19-Apr-14 18:03:11

We don't take ourselves too seriously! tbugrin

annodomini Sat 19-Apr-14 18:23:48

Tiny shorts, crop tops and belly button rings.... with Ugg boots?

Flowerofthewest Sat 19-Apr-14 18:24:53

Agree Kitty ability to laugh at ourselves. I often do.

Rolled up trousers, socks with sandles and knotted corner hankies on head (men of course)

annodomini Sat 19-Apr-14 18:26:04

I should also add: bare chested males with large beer bellies turning lobster-red in the sunshine. I used to see a lot of these at cricket matches when my son was an enthusiast.

kittylester Sat 19-Apr-14 19:39:02

Is there nothing good that makes us British?

Charleygirl Sat 19-Apr-14 19:45:51

Stiff upper lip

Ana Sat 19-Apr-14 19:49:11

Not so prevalent these days, though, Charleygirl! (See 'Too Much Emotion?' thread)

HollyDaze Sat 19-Apr-14 19:49:46

We can laugh at ourselves
We know how to make a perfect cup of tea
The weather tends not to stop us if we really want to do something
The weather is something worth talking about - repeatedly
An appreciation of irony
If we get angry, we don't become physical but will write a very stern letter
As time has marched, we are not so anal about imperfections in others

rosesarered Sat 19-Apr-14 19:59:06

not wanting to make a fuss 'in public'
being happy with small things [Bill Bryson wrote in one of his books 'that he knew he was becoming British [after living here for a few years] when after a rainy cold day at the seaside, he went into a cafe and heard himself saying, ooh, lovely, when the waitress plonked down a cup of tea and a scone on the table.'
Saying 'How are you' to a neighbour in passing, [and not wanting to be told.]
Grumbling, we are all gold medallists at it!

janerowena Sun 20-Apr-14 11:33:56

Being far more polite to strangers than we feel like being. Also, even though we may be showing more emotion, it's still not nearly as much as many other races/countries.

Self-deprecating. Apart from people writing out job applications.

Not being good at introducing ourselves to strangers.

I think we are an optimistic race, despite the grumbling.

We are very tolerant and easy-going on the whole, apart from a few pockets of racists and bigots.

MiniMouse Sun 20-Apr-14 11:36:06

Arranging to have a picnic and then, when it rains, laying a plastic tablecloth on the dining room floor and having an indoor picnic instead! Can't disappoint the DGCs wink

papaoscar Sun 20-Apr-14 15:13:58

Good aspects: Usually very tolerant. An amazing capacity to make the best of bad situations. Very good at thinking laterally.

Bad aspects: Being slightly ramshackle. Being a bit loud in public. Younger specimens - often covered in tattoos, earrings, and pretension. Drinking beer out of bottles. Wearing socks with sandals.