...has finally arrived. Unlike her cousin who came on the bathroom floor a couple of weeks ago, this little madam really fought to stay put. My poor DD was huge and her blood pressure was rising fast but the hospital insisted on her waiting until she was 14 days overdue. When they finally decided to help her things went from bad to worse. She endured 36 hours of agony before they finally got an epidural in at the third attempt. Then after another 5 hours they were both so exhausted the baby got stuck and they had to take DD to theatre so they could use forceps. My DD's insides are a mess and it took them ages to sort her out. The baby was 9lb 10oz.
I blame the hospital for this. IMO....and I know this is a mum's not a doctors opinion...they should have done a section when it become obvious DD was struggling. I appreciate there is a certain amount of pain when giving birth (been there, got the t shirt) but this was OTT. They kept telling her how short staffed they were and that they didn't have beds in the labour ward or staff for theatre. I think this lack of staff was the reason they didn't take her to theatre until they had no choice.
The upside is that DD and baby are safe. Baby is really bad tempered though. All she does is scowl . Obviously she's livid at being forced to come out
To think that London, or anywhere else for that matter, does not belong to any one demographic
Parents-in-Law. What do/did you call them?