I do not think I jump down anyone's throat kitty- truly. I try to have an informed discussion- and then I'll just withdraw when it is clear the person won't change their mind and I won't change mine- and it all becomes pointless.
But yes, I am passionate about some things, fair education and heath care for all, for instance. No-one will make me think differently about it. We have many relatives with who went to Public School and who send their kids to Public schools - and who only use private care. We just don't discuss these issues with them beyond a certain point - they of course are very judgemental about us- and think we are nuts for having send our kids to local comprehensives (where they did VERY well) and use the NHS only.
I agree with you that it is not easy.
In the present climate, and with the recent campaigns re immigrants, etc- yes, I do find it hard anyone would want to read the DM by choice. But would never hold it against you, as you say- and would be very happy to meet again. x