I took early retirement some years ago and paid off all outstanding bills with the lump sum I got. I'm quite careful with the money that I have. My husband still works. Lately he's had a lot of private/urgent envelopes so i asked was all OK? He said yes. But it's not - I came across a credit card bill for 8 thousand pounds.(It wasn't hidden, it was just in the kitchen) I couldn't believe it. He's a bit silly when it comes to buying things - he doesn't think. But I can't believe this. I'm going to have to talk to him about this but how can he possibly clear this? He's not well paid - how could he be so stupid?
Things you find stressful that other people don't notice.