Hi
I'm worried about my 6 year old granddaughter. Her mother and father (my son) are seperated so I know I need to tread extra carefully but I am very concerned.
Her mum has said that she's not eating much at all and that mealtimes have become a real chore so could we note how she eats at the weekends when she is with her dad and let her know how it goes.
All very reasonale in itself but my concern is this.... there have been no concerns voiced from school about her eating habits and when she stays with me (often 1 night each weekend) I don't experience any problems at all other than sometimes she may not be as hungry as others. She does sometimes not eat very much over the weekend at her dad's house too. Both her mum and dad have new partners. My son's new wife has been in Izzy's life since she was 2 and her mum's new partner for just over a year.
I can't help but feel that this is not about food at all but more a power struggle with her mums new partner. She told me this weekend that " * forces me to eat, and one time I was crying because my tummy hurt and I felt sick so couldn't eat"
I'm very worried about her using the phrase 'forces me to' and didn't want to pursue exactly how so as not to upset her.
How do I approach this with her parents as I am really concerned that not only is this boardering on abuse (as I don;'t know how he forces her) but that this could lead to a serious eating issue if they keep making this such a big deal.
Has anyone else had a similar problem? I desperately don't want to upset anyone and risk my relationship with my granddaughter but at the same time I'm finding it really difficult to ignore our conversation.
Many thanks
izzysnana
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