What do you do? In their early 70s, both shaped like tennis balls, lovely, lovely people. She has diabetes, he has heart problems - yet she is having cauliflower cheese made with double cream and four eggs tonight. Alongside steak. She told me today what her weekly shopping bill comes to, and it's 50% more than mine is when DS (who eats enough for two) is at home, together with DBH, for the holidays. So mathematically their food bill (bought at the same supermarket) for two could feed six adults.
They also complain about lack of money!
It's very hard to watch your friends killing themselves. They have been given diet sheets and don't think they even managed to make the first week. She is a wonderful cook. I have tried to suggest that she should cut down on desserts - that didn't go down too well. They both drink a fair bit, too.
They are both in their early 70s. So, is it a case of, let them die happy at a younger age and still remain friends? Or do I nag them and end up losing them as friends anyway? They seem to have forgotten how very ill they both were last year. She can barely walk now, her knees are crumbling under her weight.
Son’s girlfriend diagnosed with BPD