Rose No, it would be his room. If the bedroom tax is still in by then, I would need the income as I would not want to downsize again so soon. (Just moved). If he came back from uni, then he would have to blow up a mattress and sleep on the living room floor. I don't know if you have seen any of my other threads about my son but he has been abusive in different ways over the last couple of years and so by then I will be more than ready to move on with my own life. He has eaten up his chances of me thinking of him first, especially with the health problems I have, I have to think of myself first from now on. I do love him and will be there for him and he is staying until he gets into uni, but then he will have to get himself together and look after himself more.
I am looking forward to that time, of finding new people and living with someone who does not want to start a fight every time I open my mouth. And, not being responsible for someone else all the time. I've had it for years now, since looking after my alcoholic mother as a child, looking after my baby sister aged 15, getting married and children of my own, so time for me to feel far more free than I do now. And to have a laugh.