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Why does a perfectly sensible woman throw common sense out of the window in this way? When you sign up for these sites you are warned about scammers. I started talking to a lovely American engineer who was working in Nigeria. We chatted for a couple weeks and, of course, by that time he knew I was a primary teacher. One day he contacted me in a panic. Instead of using one of the company drivers he'd driven himself and knocked down a seven year old girl on the way to school. I sympathised. Later he told me that the girl needed surgery immediately or she would lose her leg and that this surgery needed paying. I sympathised again. Then he asked me for a loan. I suggested he claim off his insurance ask his employers for a sub. He told me the insurance didn't cover him and his employers wouldn't sub him. I then suggested he borrow off family but he said he was an orphan. By this time I was well aware he was trying to scam me. Well tbh I'd spotted the warning signs long before he asked for money. So I decided to string him along to see how far he'd go and I figured that whilst he was concentrating on me some other more gullible woman might be escaping his clutches.
Over the following three weeks or so his situation became more and more desperate. The money was still needed for the child but also he was now in trouble with the police. He needed bribe money to stop his arrest. Then he needed money to hire a lawyer. Finally he needed money to escape the country, It was at this point I told him he was flogging a a dead horse and that I didn't have two ha'pennies to rub together. The conversation stopped immediate;y and I never heard from him again. I reported him to the site and he was removed but no doubt he had several personalities running.
Good Morning Thursday 25th April 2024