In my DH's family, we regularly get together with all the cousins and spouses. The address list and the e-mailing is all done by the wife of one of his cousins.
On my side of the family, there is a first cousin once removed of mine who lives in America - it is his second wife who can tell us all the family gossip.
When skyping with DS and DiL, he just sits there and she tells us all the news.
It seems to be the usual thing that once you marry a man, you are expected to remember all his family's names, birthdays, and organise visits and Christmas card lists, while he is still struggling to work out what great-aunt or even a nephew is.
Do others find that it's the women who keep the family together like that, even when it's not their own blood relations?
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