I met my second husband on a dating website! I had lots of fun dating before I met him, lots of coffees, lunches, walks, dinner. Met some lovely chaps, no nutters but I did meet a couple who thought we were already in a relationship when we met, because we had been texting/ emailing for a while. Probably explains why they were still single! I had a lot of contact from younger men, which was very flattering until it dawned on me what they had in mind! But hey, maybe that floats your boat! I was a member of several websites, I can't remember which one I met my husband on, it was five years ago now. I recommend joining one affiliated with the newspaper you read, the people I met through Telegraph dating were all of a similar background, level of education and general outlook to me, and the loonies and fraudsters don't tend to hang out on paid sites. I was approached twice on a free site by a fraudster/gang who made headlines as they succeeded in persuading a lonely lady that they were an impossibly handsome officer in the American army who needed her money for medical treatments. I also recommend googling anyone you intend to meet. If they have told you they are a school governor/on the parish council/captain of golf club they will have a digital footprint. My husband was also bereaved after a long and happy marriage (and six children, all adults!) and we feel really blessed to have found such happiness again. So do give it a go, but take care, stay safe, and just remember there are more good people in the world than bad.