my DD and her partner are planning a weekend away childless, although Im happy to babysit I do think that they should put the child first. Under 5s need their mothers. I know celebrities etc go off and leave their children but I don't like it. I informed my late husband that once we had our child he was in second place and all my life was centred around
DD, he agreed and we managed a good life just by prioritising our little family, we never left her -ever.
So the question is; should couples put their relationship first or their baby. If the male is such a spoiled brat that he demands his partners attention then I think it is a mistake to be with him. Both partners should be mature enough to put their needs in second place. Am I wrong
Etheltbags (given this new name by gnet with whom Im really annoyed with).
Is it me or am I getting mixed messages