I've known children die of the most awful diseases that made their little lives so miserable and painful. But about all the children who are beaten, raped, starving, diying of Ebola without the soothing and touch of their mothers. Is that not more than they can bear- why those children and not mine. What is this all about?
If God wants to test adult Christians, I don't mind- that is fair enough.
The number of times I've heard people who escape a disaster say 'God was looking after me that day'- and I just want to scream and say 'what about all the others who died, or are maimed forever, or ...?' why them- why not me. I am absolutely and totally with Stephen Fry on that one- it is just too cruel and indiscriminate.