Congratulations - your relationship is looking very healthy indeed and it looks like you're ready for what this stage of life might throw at you. Over time. you've discovered together that relationships take time, commitment and open communication and you're reaping the rewards. The fact that you've done this quiz also demonstrates that, despite having lots of relationships experience and wisdom, you don't take your relationship for granted and you want to keep learning, which is really important. If you want to make your relationship even better, have a look back through the questions and consider what changes you and your partner might want to make.

To improve your relationship skills further, take a look at the workshop and courses section of our website at www.relate.org.uk

On the whole your relationship is in good shape. Although there are a number of differences between you and your partner, you're able to respect those differences and work through them together. If you don’t already do so, you may find it helpful to spend more time focusing on the many good things you share together to ensure these continue to outweigh any irritating niggles. It's also important, if you haven’t done so already, to spend some time discussing together how you want this next phase of your life to be, and how to work with each other's differences to make sure you both enjoy a happy later life.

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You may be finding your relationship often feels like a struggle. You still have many positive qualities but there are quite a few areas that can cause conflict or distance between you and you might find that these differences are highlighted as you go through the transition into later life. You might find it helpful to go back through this quiz and highlight the areas that you think are most important to start work on and either do it on your own or with a Relate counsellor.

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It looks as though your relationship is going through a particularly difficult time at the moment. Perhaps this is a temporary blip because one or both of you is finding it difficult to adjust to the challenges of later life, or perhaps you've been in this place for a while. It's quite normal for relationships to go through difficult times at key life transitions. At Relate, we know that the shift into later life causes issues for a lot of couples as they change from working to retirement, or family relationships change as children get older. Either way, you'll probably find it helpful to put some time aside, either alone, with your partner or with a Relate counsellor to think about the changes you'd like to make to improve your relationship.

If you are finding things tough, visit www.relate.org.uk Or call 0300 100 1234 to book an appointment to get your relationship back on track.

If you're experiencing any violence or abuse within your relationship then you should seek help immediately. Even if you think every other area of your relationship is okay, no-one should be living within an environment where they feel controlled or fearful. If this describes your situation then you can contact Relate to speak to one of our trained counsellors on 0300 100 1234, visit www.relate.org.uk or you could also contact the National Domestic Violence Helpline on 0808 2000 247.