Relationship checker

How healthy is your relationship? Fighting fit or limping? Running marathons and trampolining, or coughing and spluttering? Our friends at Relate have devised this clever relationship checker, so you can gauge how much life, energy and general va-va-voom is left in your relationship.

Midlife can be wearing on romance - but relationships can also stay fit. Answer these easy questions and find out where yours is: whether drifting in the doldrums of midlife or sailing off into the sunset. 

For more information, see relate.org.uk

We're also aiming to put together a gransnetters' guide to looking after your relationship. What one thing could you do for your relationship this week? And then what about next week? Add your suggestions to the thread.