What is it about the event that is important to you? If it is the religious bit then you are a bit stuck but if it is the family-gathering bit then can you convince them to continue the celebration in the evening or have another one at the weekend - you can't be the only ones to have trouble getting time off work.
What are son's DP's family doing, are they having the same problem?
Can you put the ball back in their court: say that you really want to share this special moment with their PFB (and other such fawning stuff) and what do they suggest is the best solution.
Another week, another Tory MP sex scandal!
Nicola Sturgeon’s husband Peter Murrell re-arrested over SNP finances.