It sounds like you have had a really awful time with the birth and your son's illness. It also sounds like your Mum's life is no bed of roses either.
I doubt she is not interested in your baby. Your Mum would have been very excited about your first baby but perhaps she has too much on her mind with your Dad to be able to be as involved with this baby ?
Your Mum does not have a duty to come and see you - It would be nice if she did but once you are grown up and have your own family your parents have already 'done their duty'
Growing up is about letting go of the dependency on your parents - besides, would yuo want your Mum to come because of a sense of duty ??
I don't mean to sound harsh because I really feel for you - I had Post Natal depression after my first baby and my parents never made any effort to come and see us after an initial visit to see the baby. It can be upsetting.
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