I have to agree with the Original Poster of this thread. I hate these abbreviated initial letters, and my first day here, i started a thread myself, on that very same subject, because i couldnt understand half of what was being said, (or not said)
I really felt that i was being excluded and that Gransnet was simply an extension of Mumsnet. I have never been on that site, and i didnt join this one to be affiliated either.
There are standard internet abbreviations, which anybody who uses the internet a lot would know, such as OMG, LOL, BBS IMO and ROFL, but when it comes to MIL, SIL, DGC (who calls their grandchild that when talking about them) and DH DD DS just make me want to puke. Those are easy enough to suss out but then you have the YKWIM and and few others which to be honest i havent taken note of, and i refuse to remember, and certainkly wont be using myself, because it is these exclusive abbreviations, which imply that if you dont understand then you will be excluded from the in crowd. No matter how much people protest they dont mean to exclude im sorry but YOU DO, and it comes over with an air of superiority that i find offensive.