I have an 18mth old grandaughter who lives only about two miles away but my son won't bring her to visit me. My mobility problems mean it's difficult for me to go and visit them but they have a car so could easily get here. But they never do, there's always an excuse. As he never visits he's not fully aware of my problems and I've now upset him by telling him that I wouldn't be able to take my grandaughter to nursery for him every day. It would involve a taxi there, then a walk (but I can't walk that far) then back to his place and another taxi home.
Since she's been born I've only seen her four times, just after she was born, her christening, her first birthday party and last Christmas for an hour. I think these visits were only out of shame, his, as he would have to explain to people why he hadn't seen me on those special days. Any other time and he doesn't care about me seeing my first grandchild. He doesn't even keep in touch, I found out via facebook that she was walking. I'm beginning to hate him for keeping her away from me. Why would he do some thing like this?
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