Why would you wait for the money to be 'offered' ??
I would have told them how much it cost and waited for the money !
I choose what money I spend on my grandchildren - and when I spend it,. and I would not be bothered if my son or daughter was offended if I asked for the money for haircuts that THEY had asked me to deal with ! Of course I would not ask them for money for things I had chosen to do with the children - but definitely for things they had organised
Why would you go away feeling irritated ?- its not fair to yourself or to them as they would have no idea that you felt like that unless you are straight with them.
I think its sad when families cannot be straight with each other - it causes all sorts of resentment and problems.
Angela Rayner lashes out and calls Sunak “pint sized loser”.