Will try n make it very brief!
Daughter 28 works full time, clever girl degree auxillary nurse..has one son (my grandson 5) been in relation ship with sons dad for over 7 yrs (bad relationship he has done/said lots of nasty things and we hate him) finaly came to an end over 12 months ago and daughter moved near me new house ..grandson in good school etc.....grandson sees his daddy regulary (very important even thought i dont like him I have to remember he is grandsons daddy)!! he has always worked but did father anotehr child (whilst on a weeks break from daughter)!!!! but my daughter loves this other child like her own and has never thought any malice towards her (she lives with mother)
anyway daughter met a new chap 6 mnths ago...man with 3 chidren although at first daughter thought he only had 2 for some reason....of course there were the usual chocolates/flowers..then it dwindled... then new man travels over 300 miles each fortnight to pick up his 3 children and they all stay at daughters for the weekend....but!!!!!!! as time has gone on she finds this chap is a little work shy! and apparently always has been..days off late etc.and he is ordered by the courts to have his 3 chidren half of the holidays...well!! if you can find an employer that will sanction all these holidays then!! ... so there fore we have a chap that is not keen on work...cost him £80 each fortnight to go and collect children.
sooooooo they decided they would all move in togther....so we have all been helping painting etc etc working our butts off....then this chap gets laid off for a week.... then the boss wast him back in at short notice.....chap cant go in cos got no childare for 3 kiddies....so catch 22....
daughter has given her tenancy notice in and is now having serious doubts.... I must say she has looked misarable the last 4/5 months...not sure what she saw in this chap as he doesnt seem to make her laugh etc ...(I know we cant laugh when we have problems but!!) she is really having to ask herself is this chap going to sponge of her...as he doesnt seem to hold down a job for long....or does she try and give it a chance with him, she works hard and is exhausted as up very early and starts work at 7 so has to get grandson to childminers very early..just wondered what opinions anyone had??? I know daughter has to sort it out herself...and I know!!!!! who she would like!!!! to be with.!! and its not the new chap...she would also like another child but new chap isnt keen (mind you dont blame him at the mo)! what would you advise if it was your! daughter.??
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