Many sympathies Barrow - you have had such a hard time.
It is funny how when we are feeling low, our minds latch onto some objectively quite small thing and will not let go of it. It is really just a focus for our general feelings of sadness. I hope that these will pass soon - I am sure that they will - and talking to people online is often quite a good way of dealing with some of this - so stay tuned. I think that "least said, soonest mended" is the order of the day as regards SIL, hard though that may be.
Prayer ban at Katharine Birbalsingh’s school is lawful, High Court rules .