Hello Tosh, how lovely to see you on here.I am a step daughter, and my step mother and Father did and spent a lot less for myself and my sister, now I look back on it,, b ut it really didn,t matter at the time. It's not how much, it's the time you put in to choose something. I now have a step son and a step daughter in law(can be very tricky) and a dear little step GD, they are my husband's family and we treat them like everyone else.I don't think your daughter will be upset as long as you handle it all sensitively,which I 'm sure you do. I have a daughter with no children and she has two grown up step children. I do sometimes think that I give more of my time and attention to other DD as she has two small children and I'm a hands on Granny, so I have to make an effort to make sure I see her and am in touch regularly. Family life is complicated in this day and age, and all you can do is your very best and no more! Oh , and £30 pounds is fine, they doon't know how much everything is.