Here in Lancashire it is school report and parents nights....just wondering how any other grandparents have gone on with their grandchildrens reports and had feedback from Parents nights?
Reason I ask is: grandson (5. yr 1 ) had his school report....it wasnt bad but wasn't glowing! then last night at parents night (my daughter and ex partner went whilst grandson and I was at the park)... and they came out devasted!! they were told that grandson is "disruptive in class, chattering all the time, does not get on with his work and has to be made to stay in at playtimes to finish his work (although apparently this make no difference)! we knew nothing! about all this, no feedback no letters...no "can you come into school , to have a chat) the school he goes to is a methodist and is quite strict on schooling, and a much sought after school to get into. if it was only 1 teachers that commented then not too bad..but for 2 to comment! grandson does his work/reading at home quite willingly and letters/sums etc. I know when the teachers are telling us about our little dears and we think(have they got the right child! as it comes out normaly a glowing report) as we were expecting..but this has totaly taken us aback!
His mum (my daughter) and ex have had many a split/argueing/back together/then split etc etc ...and I am wondering that now has all this effected him and he is rebeling, his attention span is very low he soon gets fed up of doing things..I have had words this morning but he then starts crying so I have left it as I didnt want him upset going to school..he is a bright child, but has now been moved down from top group to middle group and they are now looking at lower group...his mum had words last night whilst he was in the bath.....have any other grandparents had reports of grandchildren .not doing their work at school etc,,,? or any comments on schooling..?
Anger management!!! Help needed.