I'm looking for advice, i don't know where to turn. My eldest father has just been cleared of cancer and now he awaits the heart bypass list. In the mean time i live with him and my partner. We have noticed that he doesn't clean up let alone tidy he's a stubborn Leo. We both work from 6am-6pm mon to friday. He's been burning food, he scotched the top of our new cooker..
He leaves the gas on the cooker, without turning it off.. I am concerned whether the house will burn down or I'll come home and he will be in it. We are already going on the housing list for us at least.
I told him, i would get a carer in daily and he refused even that. I don't know where else to turn, he's rude and ignorant and now refuses to pay bills. and on top of that delusional that the world will end on the St December....
I'm only 21 and I have contacted social services, and they have advised to get a medical assessment done on him. Thing is what if he refuses.. where am i then.
if anyone can please advise how to deal with him would be great
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