granb the migraine bit struck a chord with me. 42 years ago I was carrying twins, and about a week before they induced me I had my first ever, crippling migraine - the sort that numbs one side of the body. One of the babies was stillborn, and I have often wondered if the migraine was triggered by what was going on. I have absolutely no scientific evidence, just a gut feeling. I still have the odd migraine - more when I was having chemotherapy.
And, like other posters' situations, DS2 arrived 17 months later.
Bought the wrong Hot Cross Buns 😩