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So called left wingers who pay school fees

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baNANA Mon 13-Aug-12 08:14:32

Apropos of reading an article in the Sunday Times titled "When is it right to put family ahead of principle?" Am I being unreasonable to be annoyed by people who align themselves with the left such as Polly Toynbee, and who according to this article has urged the Labour party to be more left wing, and yet has sent 2 of her 3 children to Bedales an extremely expensive and private boarding school. The article also goes on to mention other writers and editors on the Guardian who have opted for the private route. For me, if you subscribe to being a socialist, I would assume that one of the things you would want is a more egalitarian society, however seemingly for some they don't want to put their "because they're worth it children" out into a level playing field but give them that all important leg up in life. Will Self did actually try out a state primary for his son but removed him at the age of 10 as he felt he was not being properly educated and commented that he was "not prepared to sacrifice him on the altar of his own ideals" Fine for him, what about the people who don't have that choice. Journalists and public figures have a certain amount of influence and that influence could be used to raise standards. It just seems to me to be rank hypocrisy. I would like to add that I'm not having a go at a) People of the left or b) People who send their children to private schools, only the two together.

harrigran Fri 07-Sep-12 10:34:32

I don't think private education is that rare, here in the north east our children and those of work colleagues went to good private schools.

nanaej Fri 07-Sep-12 10:58:40

harrigran fewer than 10% of children and young people attend private schools. 90% of children are educated in state schools, most of whom are happy and well educated.

I did not pay a penny for my children to be educated in their local schools and they are both high achievers too! Not sure it's always to do with the money you spend!

harrigran Fri 07-Sep-12 13:30:21

The state school in our area was known for it's drama and sports not academic subjects. I sent DC to a school with traditional teaching methods and to mix with like minded students. I wasn't trying to be better than anyone else, we just wanted our children to be happy.
I don't accept that bright children will succeed anywhere, I have seen bright kids dumb down so that they fit in with their peers.

nanaej Fri 07-Sep-12 22:58:11

Just because a school is known for a particular subject does not always mean it does not do well in other subjects too!

I accept I am 'hard line' re private education. It's aenathema to me. I have heard all the arguments from teachers, parents and some students too who are in favour of private education but I have not been convinced it is the best for a country /nation.

harrigran Sat 08-Sep-12 10:09:13

Trust me, you would have agreed with me if you had seen the local school.
Remember too nanaej by removing our children from state education we made class numbers smaller and in effect paid for education twice.
If the state education had been up to standard it would never be an issue. DS will probably not send his children to a private school even though he went.

Lilygran Sat 08-Sep-12 11:58:45

There are good private schools and good state schools. Ditto bad. This thread actually started as a complaint about our elected representatives who make the educational policy which determines the fate of the vast majority of our children and then decide it isn't good enough for their own offspring. If they had no choice, they might make decisions based on more urgent considerations than political ideology. As long as there are fee-paying schools, everyone (except politicians) has a right to pay for their children's education. I believe the same applies to private health care.

Bags Sat 08-Sep-12 12:22:27

Well said, lily. Absolutely spot on.

Lilygran Sat 08-Sep-12 12:37:34

sunshine Bags

baNANA Sat 08-Sep-12 16:15:44

Yes Lilygran I started the thread and I agree with your post and would defend anyone's right to send their children to private school, but just don't say you are fundamentally left wing if you do so because it sounds so lame. I also believe in an ideal world we would just have good state education and everyone would subscribe to that, however, clearly that's not the case.

RKGran Mon 10-Sep-12 14:22:31

Fascinating thread!
@nanaej quite right to point out that less than 10% of population go to independent schools. The picture varies greatly across the UK. In some parts of London, the socio-economic make-up of people living next to the top state schools is 'higher' than that of people living next to the top independent school in other parts of the country. So going to a state school doesn't necessarily mean you're going to get a raw deal and going to an independent school doesn't necessarily mean you're rolling in money - granted, you have to have disposable income, but many scrimp and save to afford it. I can't see how it can be true that independent schools are creaming off the intellectual top - first of all, they aren't all selective and secondly, with only 7% of the school age population in independent schools, it's a statistical impossibility. But something's clearly happening in those schools that translates into progression to university. Someone - sorry can't remember who - posted that what's important about school is having a good socio-economic mix and I agree. I also think the recent call for 'open access' to independent schools is a good thing. It will open up existing independent schools to children from lower income families in a far greater way than offering a few bursaries ever could and, if the Government allow it, it could be a small baby step towards a more egalitarian school system. @baNANA it IS annoying for so-called socialist journalists to turncoat when it comes to their children's education. I understand their motives and don't condemn them, but they are really two-faced if they then continue to spout ideals that fly in the face of their own actions.
Our family was in a similar situation last year and I came across this on Google. It doesn't really add much to the original point of this thread, but it may just be useful to someone out there if you're trying to decide between school types: www.mydaughter.co.uk/educating-your-daughter/7-11/education-choices/independent-vs-state-how-do-i-make-the-most-of-my/
Personally, I find the whole concept of choice in education quite alien. But it's all different now!