I agree with mishap, and think you need to just stand your ground about your own independence. Tell her thank you for the thought but you'd rather she didn't choose clothes for you, and don't buy clothes for her. In short, don't play her little control games.
I know it can be hard to break out of the trying to please mum mode. I've had that problem myself, also only resolved in my fifties, but over different issues than clothes.
If she still buys clothes from charity shops for you, just accept them and take them back or otherwise dispose of them. If she asks, tell her they weren't to your taste and you took them back. If she throws a hissy fit, shrug and walk away.
Good luck.
Shall we reboot our cartoons thread again? 😁
Oversharing of personal information - have we reached the nadir?