I have two lovely granddaughters who i have spent lots of time with, one is 7 and the other 3.
My daughter and i have always been close and she has had a lot of help in several different ways and i always saw my granddaughters a few times a week, i have looked after them while she went to work and have had them stay for weekends.
Everything changed when she met another man, he started having arguments with her friends and various family members to the point where a lot of people disappeared out of her life, he tried to get the girls dad's access stopped, then decided one day to send me nasty text messages saying my daughter didnt want to see me any more. I contacted her and she would not reply, i have been cut off from my 2 granddaughters and have not been able to see them or send presents since the end of october last year.
I know that i did not do anything to interfere or cause upset and it all came out of the blue.
The girls dad has been in touch and offered to bring the girls to see me and asked my daughter if it was ok and she said no or she would move out of town and he wouldnt see his children again.
I really cant understand why this has happened.
I know there is nothing anyone can do to help but just wanted others to know my story.
I was very upset but over the last few months i have focused on other things in my own life but i still think of the girls often and live in the hope that one day i will be able to see them again.
I recently heard that my daughter and this man are getting married next year!
I know some of you have problems with daughter in law's but i would be interested to know if anyone has a daughter who has acted in the way mine has.
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