Is it unreasonable to see red when my dol puts my dgcs down - eg saying dgs has a big head or is a plonker - seems to happen more to gs than gd, but can only speak for when I am there. Also, she puts my son down by referring to things that really should not be topics in conversation.
This has been happening for 4 or 5 years - the little ones are currently 4 and 6.
We do not have a great relationship - she is very 2 faced about lots of people in her life, so cannot imagine that when she is being nice to me, she isn''t having thoughts or making remarks to someone else.
Part of the problem may me that she thinks she is fooling me, but certainly not.
Do I say something to her (and how do I approach it), to my son (ditto), or try and carry on ignoring it? Dilemma. Don't want to make our relationship worse, or create a wedge between me and my son, but it makes my blood boill!
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