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Charities 'canvassing' for money

(58 Posts)
Anniebach Wed 18-Mar-15 15:36:44

I wish some charities would join together as one . Cancer charities, child protection charities, armed forces charities etc. Some have to stand alone , such as air ambulances . janerowen was right, so many cut backs in donations charities have to do more to get funds

janerowena Wed 18-Mar-15 15:28:17

I hate it too, but had it explained to me by a friend who works for a charity. When the recession hit, one of the first thing salaried people did was cut their regular contributions, many were made redundant, many more had salaries cut or frozen. Charities were forced to close. Which again led to unemployment. They are a bit desperate at the moment. Apart from donkey sanctuaries which are booming. I'm not surprised - my great aunt left half her inheritance to one in Cornwall!

Pittcity Wed 18-Mar-15 15:21:02

It's the people in the colourful tabards who stop you in the street that annoy me.

"Would you like to help starving orphans, abandoned puppies, blind veterans etc? "
Of course I would, but I won't pay your commission!

In our High Street it is the same youngsters touting for a different charity each week.

KatyK Wed 18-Mar-15 15:18:36

I can see why people stop donating after being pressurised.

KatyK Wed 18-Mar-15 15:17:48

I agree Greenfinch. DH has just said 'you should stop them in their tracks' but having just experienced cancer ourselves I can appreciate what people are suffering and feel so hard hearted sad

loopylou Wed 18-Mar-15 15:16:51

I have stopped 3 regular donations for exactly this reason.
They've now lost out as I have redirected my donations to unrelated agencies. I even had a call asking why and trying to persuade me to restart - and to increase my donation by 200%!
The guy just didn't get it!

Greenfinch Wed 18-Mar-15 15:08:04

Regularly and I detest them. They start off thanking you for your support and end up asking for more money. I stop them in their tracks by saying if the call is about increasing my donation I would like to end it now.If a certain amount of money is mentioned I get very cross.

I think we should all be allowed to give to the charities we choose to support. It annoys me that the big national charities are always touting for money while the smaller local ones cannot afford to do so.

I think they all need to examine their methods of fund raising.

KatyK Wed 18-Mar-15 14:55:42

I think there is already a thread on this subject but I can't find it. I have just been left feeling quite tearful after a call from a breast cancer charity asking if I would join their new Lottery (not sure which charity it was). The very pleasant young man asked me how much I knew about breast cancer and gave me various statistics etc. Obviously it ended up with me being asked to contribute about £4 a month to their new Lottery which would mean I could win £1000. I explained that I already give to two charities each month and buy raffle tickets twice a year for one of them and that my DH has prostate cancer at the moment and we have been giving to that charity and Macmillan nurses and that we are living on pensions, so no on this occasion I couldn't help. He then said he would call me back in 3 months to see if 'my circumstances had changed'. I get one of these calls from various charities about once a month. I feel SO bad for saying no. These people are being paid by the charities to, in my opinion, emotionally blackmail people. Surely the money spent on employing these agencies or whatever would be better spent going directly to the charity. I think this particular one got to me because of what we have been through this last year with DH's cancer and of course I would love to help others going through this but I can't. Does anyone else get these calls?