The fact that someone has thought something through does not mean that it has been rationally considered. The human capacity for self delusion has few limits.
To consider this plan as being other than disastrous for this potential mother and child, I would want to know that she has had a lot of dealings with small children, been constantly on hand when a friend or sibling had children, looked after small children on her own for a weekend.
As I mentioned my own DD has decided she could not cope with living with another adult however much she loved them and she decided that would probably apply to living with children, even if they were her own. Then her brother married and had two small children who adore her. We went on a 10 day family holiday, us, son and family and DD. The children could not spend too much time with her. She was in effect experiencing living with a child. By the end of a week, she was locking herself in her bedroom and refusing to come out because she simply could not cope with the non-stop attention of the children, even though their parents were there and doing their best to give her some space.
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