Dear friends, I would like you'll to stop assuming our youngsters are without feeling or education. The world has,changed, and our young ones are being bombarded with a lot of new,knowledhe etc...Please,give them a chance to learn? Why not politely ask, explain, refer to their own family? Yes, I think in that situation I would take my child/grandchild on my lap and explain why. Of course they say no if you ask them, they don't understand why, maybe think your over-protecting or something. it's normal children don't realise this of their own, so we should teach them, no?