We always just take a baby plate and give DGS some of ours as he has a tiny appetite, unfortunately preferring to drink pints of milk ?
When he used to eat a bit more we ordered from the children's menu a couple of times but it was 90% wasted.
He mostly eats olives and garlic bread at the moment when we go out to eat - maybe a couple of spoonfuls of lasagne if we're lucky, no chips, no ice cream - he's very well behaved though, mostly ?
Of course, at nursery he eats curry, naan bread, sausage rolls, birthday cake, sandwiches, sweet and sour chicken, ice cream - basically anything ?
So no, you are NBU imo ?