Are these lazy men that lazy at work? I bet not at all.
At work, they know what has to be done without having their bosses (aka mommy at work) holding their hand.
At work, these lazy men behave like independent able human beings, or they would be fired right away.
So if your lazy at home partner is able to hold a job successfully for years, they are taking their spouses aka slaves at home for granted.
You want a moan, vent, complain, be a martyr, etc., go ahead. If you want to perpetuate the gender inequality, be my guest.
If you want something to stop, you make it happen.
If you want to keep venting, you are not doing enough to stop it. So stop venting and DO something to improve your own life.
Or stop moaning because this is the life YOU CHOSE FOR YOURSELF