Just sometimes it is necessary to be reasonably truthful with an OP who, although they may not like the truth, do accept, they may have got things wrong.
Others though, will have to do what many of us have been doing forever when faced with certain upsets, we pull on our big girl pants and get on with it, in search of a solution! ?
Estranged Son and Future Granddaughter
To think that London, or anywhere else for that matter, does not belong to any one demographic