I must be a chameleon. I can sway from introvert to extrovert when ever the mood takes me or the situation calls for it. At work I was outgoing and lively and if I had a quiet moment people just couldn't cope with it. They thought I was ill or angry about something
I once went to a workshop for counselling services where the group leader pointed out that sometimes introverts are 'letting others do all the work', taking risks, putting themselves out there. Needless to say the introverts in the group had nothing to say on the subject!
I have enjoyed the downtime during lockdown where I can spend hours, days weeks even not speaking to anyone, not mingling or being very communicative and I don't relish all the 'partying' that everyone seems to be planning in the months ahead
Luckily all the people I enjoy being with are more laid back, quieter and don't make a loud fuss, so seeing them will be a pleasure
We all need to respect our own way of being as well as the needs of others who need recognition, bonding, closeness and excitement to make them feel energised and able to cope with situations. Introverts just need time to think, separation and stillness to be able to manage the next step
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