I know very wisely that one must never interfere in the lives of DD and SIL However, my son in law suffers quite badly with OCD and can get very stressy. His job is very stressy too. He has a habit of speaking in quite a sharp way to my DD and has started to speak to me in the same fashion if we say anything that may not resonate with him. I have never broached this subject with them and just hold my tongue. My question is 'Do I say to him that I do not appreciate being spoken to in that tone or do I just remain silent as I have up till now?' I would appreciate feedback, please, so that I may be mindful if the right thing to do or not do. Thank you.
I've got another 'keen'... Ouch!