My sister died this year, we've always had a turbulent relationship, but got closer the last few years. I was distraught when she died, but moving on I now feel some anger as she kept things from me that she knew I'd want. Stuff from my parents, and our childhood. For example, my mum remarried after my dad died. My sister was goven her engagement and wedding rings unbeknown to me.
Later, when we were clearing out mums place after mum died and I found some rings, I said to my sister, these must be mums wedding and engagement ring and she never once said no they are not as I have them.
I only got them when her daughters found and gave them to me. This happened with a few other things and papers to.
I don't want to feel guilty that I feel cross with her and sad, but I do.
The SNP is in a ‘tremendous mess’ apparently.