Think it may be a MIL thing. Both my DDs MILs took over and cuddled the new baby to the exclusion of others at the first visit immediately after the births of their babies. I think it is a statement saying that they are important people in the child's life. Think it could be that they realise that the daughter's mother often takes priority and they want to stake their claim and prove a point. That is certainly the case with my elder DDs MIL. This last time (third baby) my DD carefully organised visiting times so it was fair, and we all had our slots to ensure not too many by the bed in hospital and fair access for all. The only person who did not conform to the "slots" and outstayed her times was her MIL, who told her precious son that it was her grand child and she would visit when she wanted. Needless to say she is not my DDs favourite person......
Another week, another Tory MP sex scandal!
What Would You Do in this Position?