Thank you all for your posts.
None of our grandchildren have all their presents from Father Christmas. They have stocking fillers from Father Christmas and then presents from family, for which they always write thank you notes.
DD1 has always had a family party for the children's birthdays which is when we have the remarks. I rarely ask my children what to get their children as I think that way they only get their mother's ideas. Some of my children's best presents when they were young were from their slightly 'off the wall' aunt. She was also responsible for some of the worst!!
The other grandmother and I have, since the children were born, looked after them for a day a week so she should be able to think of something.
I do periodically buy all the grandchildren clothes but not stuff they 'need'. We will continue to buy what we want to give them and hope she stops embarrassing us and her son and daughter-in-law.
Bought the wrong Hot Cross Buns 😩
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Being moved along by someone who "wants your place".