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Is she imagining it

(33 Posts)
cheelu Sun 06-Jan-13 19:43:39

My sister just rang was upset saying Hubby keeps avoiding her by leaving the room the minute she walks into it, I am sure I have noticed him doing that a couple of times, He sits in the kitchen and if she goes in there for what ever reason he will get up and go in living room...

cheelu Sun 06-Jan-13 22:05:56

But j05 this is the bit I don't understand,,why does he not just say if he is fed up with her..

jO5 Sun 06-Jan-13 22:10:31

Probably doesn't want to make waves at this time of life.

cheelu Sun 06-Jan-13 22:13:09

that is so sad though and a waist of two peoples lives, don't you think

NfkDumpling Sun 06-Jan-13 22:40:40

If he's stressed over his business and feeling low the last thing he will want is a wife worrying about where their relationship is going.

cheelu Sun 06-Jan-13 22:44:33

true, very true NfkDumping but the problem is she does not know what the problem is at all so this is why between us we can not find a solution..

harrigran Sun 06-Jan-13 22:58:31

cheelu the only advise I can give is find a rich man and be very nice to him grin

cheelu Sun 06-Jan-13 23:10:03

Sis just called they are off on holday next week to France AHHHH obviously sorted things out. I am spring cleaning next week so a bit of a difference!!!