Hello cathy, confrontation would not be a good idea. The new girlfriend is in a difficult position. She is probably just being tactfull by letting your son and his boy have time together. If the mother is giving negative vibes she is being wise to just let things be. Sometimes being a good Mum and Grandma is more about what you dont do and say than what you do say.
Many years ago I was the 'girlfriend' and when my husbnad had his son over for the week-end I just let them have that time together. I would cook the meals etc but I just let them have 'boy' time together....and many years later I found it was by far the best thing to do.
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