"Inthefields"
In your post you addressed Cathy did you mean me Nelliemoser?
I addressed my response to Cathy as I had some issues with her comments on ASD particularly being calm.
Yes sorry! I didn't mean anything in particular about saying "getting by" but I was trying to point out that it can be a very disabling condition.
My DH is undiagnosed but has shown many classic Aspergers symptoms. He has an MSC but cannot organise himself, has lost lots of jobs due to slowness or not wanting to start anything when he has been asked.
A classic line was.. I would have done it if you hadn't mentioned it. He talks people to death and can't stop giving far too many details so the poor listener looses the thread. Etc tetc. My life is not made easy by this to say the least.
Being moved along by someone who "wants your place".
How much do you spend on yourself?