My ex abused his stepdaughter and my other two children(by him) were 4 & 11 months when I kicked him out and he hasn't seen them since. My granddaughter is nearly six now and my daughter feels her father should at least know he has a grandchild. She also has questions she wants to ask him like why did he do what he did.
The abuse was over 20 years ago and although I know how to contact him I have no idea of his life since I kicked him out. I don't even live in the same city. I don't know what to do. My youngest does not want to know but will go with whatever I feel is best. How my abused daughter would react I don't know. I worry about how she would feel about it.
I want to do what is right & best for my children & granddaughter.
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