Can I say one final thing, then maybe this will help you decide. Sexual abusers have sexual fantasies about what they want to put into action. They fantasise whilst masturbating. The vivid images they create and shape into a gratifying stream of pictures or films in their head are so powerful and effective, they continue to use and adapt them even when they undertake treatment for sex offending. Skilled therapists teach them how to extinguish deviant sexual fantasies, but many sex offenders don't disclose their fantasies in full, out of fear that they won't be able to get sexual gratification again.
If he has gone through a sex offending treatment programme and it has been successful, he will not respond to your letter asking questions, but will seek support from a responsible third party and suggest mediation before having contact with a non-abused member of the family, being aware of the effect his appearance could have on the daughter he harmed.
If he hasn't been successfully treated, are you prepared to take the risk of him learning that there are children in the family and they have no idea about what he is capable of?
Many sex offenders who abuse one child only, and elevate that child to the status of an adult in order to justify their behaviour, might never abuse a child again. Even if you do know what category of risk, and type of sex offender he is, would you expose your abused daughter to resurrected memories of the harm that was done to her, and a worry that you all put her well-being second to the curiosity of siblings who don't quite get what he as done?
I am picking up that you don't want any of this, but need to say enough to justify this problem going away again. Children can be told he did bad things and had to go to prison, and that's why he's no longer around. Adults can be told how sex offenders operate and then make responsible decisions about how they keep their children safe.
Army horses loose on London streets
Well Labour’s “patriotism” didn’t last very long, did it? 🇬🇧
The majority of Israeli Jews do not want to occupy Gaza.