I would like some advice please from some grandparents. my dd is 4 yrs old and we live 2.5 hrs drive from inlaws. my dh and I have recently discovered that, although we knew his parents were drinkers, we didn't realise quite how much until they came to stay with us 2 months ago. we have now found out that they drink when they have our DD to stay over with them for 3 or 4 nights every so often. they drink a 1L bottle of vodka every night. they even drink this amount when they have our dd staying alone with them. I am horrified and very concerned for the safety of my dd. they open the bottle at 5pm every night and it is empty by 8.30pm. I asked my DH to talk to them about this which he reluctantly did about 6 weeks ago and now they whole family is against me including my husband. he thinks its not a problem. I am concerned that they aren't fit to drive should anything happen and they need to get her to hospital. I am worried that her gran keeps insisting on carrying her upstairs to bed. she is drunk when she lifts here and she is perfectly capable of walking up the stairs to bed herself but her gran likes to carry her all the time. her gran has now had 4 mini strokes over the past 3 years and is still drinking every single night. her gran now wants my dd to go down and stay for a few nights with them and I said no. she phoned me being abusive calling me names and saying whats the harm as she hasn't dropped her and put her in hospital yet. I am so utterly disgusted with my husband and with them. they have now said they will compromise and instead of opening the vodka at 5pm, they will wait till she has gone to bed. my dh and I are now in separate rooms and the atmosphere in the house is terrible. I will not give in and he is adamant that he will drop our daughter off with them for a few says as they want to see her soon. why cant they just not drink at all when they have her? what do I do. im told by my dh that I have now caused irrepairable damage in the family and no one in the family wants anything more to do with me. im fine with this as I am so disgusted with them but I am so concerned about my daughter. how do I handle these inlaws
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