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Why are some people so flipping cross?

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Jalima1108 Thu 15-Jun-17 17:19:47

But if the cap fits grin

Anniebach Thu 15-Jun-17 16:37:41

Nananandgrampy grin

Belledonna telling a poster to get of a thread because someone disagrees, or telling a poster the are not capable of an adult conversation is a teeny bit unpleasant is it not?

kittylester Thu 15-Jun-17 16:36:49

I'd like to point out that I mentioned no names in my op and it was not aimed at any particular person.

wildswan16 Thu 15-Jun-17 16:23:30

I suspect Rigby thinks he/she is being really clever and superior to everyone else - in fact they are just a tiresome child.

Some people are just made cross I guess. Maybe when they write their thoughts down it comes over as a bit more cross and argumentative than if we could have heard the intonation in their voice - but they should take that into consideration. I don't mind having a difference of opinion with anyone, but as I always told my children - if you can't say (write) something nicely then don't say anything at all.

I was just watching the GP programme on TV and a young girl was so cross that the doctor advised her to go up to the hospital and appeared very ungrateful for any help that was being offered. There is no excuse, whatever kind of bad day she might have been having.

NanaandGrampy Thu 15-Jun-17 16:18:35

I think you have a point Annie in that being angry is the default setting for some people.

It's like Grampy - when the girls were younger his default answer to pretty much everything was 'no'! A bad habit I knocked persuaded him out of smile

Maybe it makes them feel better?

Alima Thu 15-Jun-17 16:16:55

Probably pussy cats in RL. Hence the snores.

Rigby46 Thu 15-Jun-17 16:13:50


NanaandGrampy Thu 15-Jun-17 16:13:49

what is it that's always posted Rigby - if it's so boring you don't need to read or post . confused

Ana Thu 15-Jun-17 16:11:28

Obviously tires 'em out as well...

Rigby46 Thu 15-Jun-17 16:09:57


kittylester Thu 15-Jun-17 15:57:31

It just uses such a lot of energy that could be put to better use.

Ana Thu 15-Jun-17 15:53:57

It's always the same posters, as well...hmm

rosesarered Thu 15-Jun-17 15:53:56

I have no idea why people are cross/easily offended/lookingforafight etc and not sure I want to know ( but they can't come to my birthday party! grin)

kittylester Thu 15-Jun-17 15:52:07

I just did! confused

rosesarered Thu 15-Jun-17 15:51:17

Kitty don't ask! grin

kittylester Thu 15-Jun-17 15:47:07

Rigby what is 'gfery'?

Rigby46 Thu 15-Jun-17 15:28:55


Chewbacca Thu 15-Jun-17 15:26:45

Look on the bright side kitty, at least we don't have to live with 'em! grin

Cherrytree59 Thu 15-Jun-17 15:25:16

pollyanna have got agree.
On some nearly every posts if somebody said Pink there would be someone else to say No its magenta! grin

Miss butterwouldn'tmelt. x

Bellanonna Thu 15-Jun-17 15:23:42

At others' expense Annie ?

Anniebach Thu 15-Jun-17 15:20:48

Some people are born cross kitty, for some it gets them through the day

kittylester Thu 15-Jun-17 15:15:03


Rigby46 Thu 15-Jun-17 15:08:56

< yawn> more gfery

kittylester Thu 15-Jun-17 15:05:14

And why are they so ready to look for something to be offended about?

Lots of love
Pollyanna. grin