This is actually my daughters problem rather than my own. She has been with her partner for 5 years and they have a lovely 2 year old son. They recently got married.
The problem is her mother in law. She lives close to them but only rarely goes to see her grandson. However, she sees her 5 year old grandaughter virtually every day, picks her up from school, takes her out, has her to stay over, pays for her and her mum to go on holiday abroad with her and more. (they are not destitute by any means, the mum has a very well paid job)
This all makes my daughter very mad understandably, she feels that her son is being rejected and hates having to ask her mother in law to babysit for any reason because it has to fit in with looking after her other grandchild.
I live at the other side of the country so cant help very much.
Can anyone suggest how my daughter can tackle this problem please?
They don't really care do they
I am not a nasty person but ……
Is it me or am I getting mixed messages